{"id":10096,"date":"2021-08-24T17:34:22","date_gmt":"2021-08-24T17:34:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/media-archive.blackartinamerica.com\/?p=10096"},"modified":"2021-08-24T17:36:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T17:36:05","slug":"black-august","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/earthexhibitions.org\/media-archive\/?p=10096","title":{"rendered":"I Changed My Mind About Black August"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n
by Trelani Michelle<\/pre>\r\nBlack August is for black people (also by black people, which is important to point out), but it felt super patriarchal. Black August started as a month to mourn, honor, and reflect black activists. But all the activists who were ever mentioned were all\u2026men.<\/p>\r\n
I didn\u2019t feel the need to speak out against it. Just felt like it was more for black men than black people. Then one of my writer-friends sent me an article on Black August. The article stated that:<\/p>\r\n
\u201cBlack August is a time to reflect, revitalize, revisit, and refuel\u2026August provides perspective in a way that allows productivity.\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n
At the beginning of August, I started eating lighter and going running again. I also started playing hooky from work. Although I work for myself and manage my own time, I gotta be careful not to lose myself in goals and deadlines. I\u2019m living my dream, but I gotta make sure it FEELS like I am.<\/p>\r\n
I took off today too! Turned my phones off, lit some candles, shut my room door, and climbed in bed with a book and a notepad. The book, Hormone Intelligence<\/em>, asked me to reflect on my beliefs on my body\u2019s ability to heal itself, my attitude about my monthly cycles, and how I felt about being a woman. It also asked for my mama\u2019s beliefs and attitudes on these same subjects. Whew! That was some necessary reflecting.<\/p>\r\n
The mention about Black August being a time to mourn has been heavy too. August is the month my stepfather passed at 43 years old, which brought to mind my best friend dying at 35. Both of cancer. That shit ain\u2019t fair. And I\u2019m learning how to make space for grief instead of compartmentalizing it and getting back to work.<\/p>\r\n
That\u2019s what the system pushes us to do. It wants you to hurry up and \u201cfix your face\u201d so you can get back to work. It wants you to \u201crise and grind.\u201d To hustle now and sleep when you die. It wants us stuck on the never-ending cycle of setting goals, making more, spending more, then restarting the cycle: setting goals, making more, and spending more.<\/p>\r\n
Director of the Beach Institute’s Genealogy Resource Support Center, Dr. Deborah Johnson-Simon\u00a0told me one day, \u201cDon\u2019t forget to do what can\u2019t nobody else do for you.\u201d Can\u2019t nobody rest for you. Overworking is stressing us out. Stress is killing us too fast. Black August says put your foot down.<\/p>\r\n
Black August is also a time to hold the unjust<\/strong> accountable<\/strong>.<\/h2>\r\n